To clubbing men everywhere,

I like to dress up when I go out. I like to wear short bottoms and the occasional backless shirt. Throw in some Vickie's bra to boost up the cleavage and I'm bar bound. But let me get one thing straight. I DON'T BELONG TO YOU. LOOK, DON'T TOUCH.

Seriously. I was rocking out some short shorts last night at the club and while standing with my boyfriend at the bar (his hand was around my waist!), some asshole pinched my ass and said "MMM" . I turned around and told him, "*@cK U!" My boyfriend heard me and asked what was wrong and I told him some asshole pinched my ass. The asshole heard me and walked away. This reminded me of another time when some pig decided to rub my back while I was wearing a backless shirt.

A woman does not merit disrespect unless she outright whores herself around. I may dress sexily, but I am no slut and do not welcome creepy men touching me. Don't pretend to walk by and bump into my chest. I will elbow you. I don't have a problem getting in your face if you disrespect me. If I prefer to dress myself in something riské for a night , it's because I'm feeling sexy and I like the way it looks on me. Just because I wear something sexy, I'm not walking around as a sloppy drunk showing everyone what's under the skirt. In fact, these things happen when I DON'T dress revealing as well, so it's not even a matter of the girl advertising herself as easy. I'm not going to pretend that I don't want the attention. However, it is NOT because I invited you to a pow wow where your grubby hands could feel me up . Respect your women and forget about your cheap thrills. The sluts will come to you, don't touch what is not yours.

Where do these pigs get off thinking that they can go grab some girl and everything is peachy? What I find even more annoying are the girls that giggle after they get man-handled. It goes something like this:

Guy walks by.
Guy slaps girl in ass.
Girl turns around.
Girl giggles.
Girl turns to her friend and says, "OMG he touched my ass! HEHEHEHEHEHE! Do you think he LIKES me?"

Stupid. Respect yourself. It's not "cute" and it's not "flirtatious". It's easy and disrespectful. If you don't want to be treated like meat, don't act like it. Didn't your mother teach you to respect yourself? My boyfriend says that well, if the girl wants it, then I shouldn't judge... but how did that guy walk by and KNOW that the specific girl who giggled wanted it? If she does, than she does and my opinion is that she doesn't think highly of herself. My opinion. I think that positive attention such as looking and complimenting is worth the "giggles", not overt man-handling.

I'm not surprised that it happens. Some people are just classless. This is just my "I'm annoyed" rant. Just because it happens, doesn't mean that it's right.

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